Family New Years Resolutions
The Perfect Family Resolutions This New Year
With a new year ahead, we get to refresh and restart the way we do things. Taking stock of ourselves and how we can improve is always the mindset for us when January rolls around. As the saying goes, “Today is the first blank page of a 365 page book. Write a good one.”
For some reason I find myself not wanting to let go of my old world of 2018. Though in the earlier part of the year, I relished in its soul-stretching and great exhale the year brought to my family, I am scared to let go. It’s like I have one foot in one world and one foot gearing up for the new year ahead. Losing my brother was and still is shattering to my soul. As a family, I believe in persevering no matter the obstacle, but this one has left me knowing that grief cannot be ignored.
However, no matter where you are in life, January is by far the perfect time to talk to the kids about realistic resolutions that they need to work towards. It’s up to us to mold our children to be awesome, loving human beings. Now that we have found our rhythm as a family of six, it’s important that we make resolutions as a family. I thought it was the perfect opportunity to include the kids on some ideas for our resolutions. After all, we could all use a little refining.
Here are our family’s top 5 resolutions for the new year:
Disconnecting from my virtual world and plugging into my real one is the priority for all of us. I wrote a post about this a while back and it still rings true. Our phones, tablets, computers have become our everything, and when we stick to the rule as a family to shut everything off, we feel more connected as parents. We get to read with the kids, focus more on conversations with fewer distractions and really be present with one another. I also want our kids to talk about three awesome things that happened each day. I want them to see and embrace the positive in the world.
From diet to exercise, New Year’s is always the perfect time to invest in yourself. There is no better investment than working on YOU! I try to tell my kids their body is a vessel and they have to feed and nourish and take care of themselves. Having conversations about what they put into their body and why getting outside to play truly helps them be more aware is top of mind this year. When we were kids, we ate skittles and starburst without ever thinking about how unhealthy that was, so instead of just letting them eat the candy, we talk about the ingredients. A good way I will instill healthier choices with my brood is in the grocery store. By letting them choose the vegetables and entrees to cook, they then become more involved in what they eat.
And as far as exercise is concerned, my husband and I try to get to the gym four days a week, and we know that if the children see us take care of our bodies, it will definitely mold them into making exercise a priority later in life.
My kids are growing up a lot different from the way Bobby and I have . I’ve mentioned many times in the past that we come from humble beginnings and our kids have a lot more than we did. Though I do see their appreciation with what they have, they need to feel just as good about giving back – making contributions to those who are less fortunate. At the end of every month in 2018, we will be doing a “clean out” of their rooms. They will make bags of the clothes, toys and other items that they would like to donate to church. It makes me really happy to see them get excited about this. It’s our job as parents to ensure our kids are happy in life, working toward the with the things they want, and even happier providing for those in need.
I think its important to all go out as a family, but having some alone time with my husband is also a must. As much as I desire to go out with him alone, I find myself on a date with 6 of us, instead of one. I wrote a story on the TODAY Show Parenting Team about my doctor’s orders to date my husband. Now is the perfect time I listen to that advice and get those movie tickets, paddle board sessions or even a nice dinner out.
I love when I feel the support of my friends, so it’s important I talk to my kids about supporting theirs. Sure, they are young, but I want them to be more like cheerleaders of the human race. Even if they don’t relate to their friends’ sports or their choices in books, I want them to be kind and appreciate their differences. Some ways I do this is by teaching them to listen and give good feedback, don’t judge or be rude if someone is doing something they doesn’t particularly relate to them. Always be kind! Great parents raise great kids, right?
Slowing down and appreciating each day is another priority on my family’s list. I want to space out my calendar and not feel so rushed. It’s not easy being a parent to four children. I want them to know and feel they are the priority because they are. Everything else can wait.
This life we live is precious and amazing. I am hoping for all of us to appreciate each day and make it our best year yet! Hopefully these five new family goals will get more smiles and get our family kickstarted on a brand new 2019! What are you doing this year? I would love to hear from you! Comment below!
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