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How Baby Dolls Prep Boys To Be Great Men

How Baby Dolls Prep Boys To Be Great Men #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kidsThis Post Is Sponsored By My Brand Partner, Apple Park! As Always, All Opinions Are My Own! Thank You For Sponsoring CityGirlGoneMom!

When I had my first son Jackson 11 years ago, my heart also birthed a new sense of understanding for boys. I lived in the South at the time, and one day at the park, I recall a woman asking, “Shouldn’t he have a toy truck instead of a baby doll?” And instead of going straight NYC Italian on her, I was rather composed and said, “No ma’am, his doll shouldn’t spark any surprise, as I am raising a gentleman.” I found myself confused as to why she believed playing with a doll would make him anything less than a boy. Are baby dolls only meant for females? If we gush over baby wearing dads and dads who push their strollers through the park, shouldn’t there be an acceptance of boys playing with dolls?

Not that I would go to the extreme of painting his room pink and filling it with doll houses, but I do think there are many benefits to boys with dolls, and here’s just a few.

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4 Reasons Why It’s Ok For Boys To Play With Dolls

  1. Empathy
    Having a doll teaches kids empathy. When my baby Brody (now age two) drops his doll, he gets upset. And when our dog Mabel decides to make it “her toy”, he screams in a panic. In the sweetest of ways, there’s a major sense of wanting to make his doll feel better. Kissing it on the forehead and holding it like mommy holds him simply melts my heart. Ultimately, Brody is mirroring with his Organic Apple Park Baby, the way I am with him, and I believe it’s teaching him valuable life skills to becoming a kind and nurturing man. Kid Playing a Doll #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Happy Kid with Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids
  2. Prepping To Be A Good Dad
    When I watch how my husband is with our four children, I wonder if he too played with dolls. He may not remember (or admit to it), but having three sisters in the house makes me believe that he’s had some practice. And I’m quite alright with that, because surely it’s paid off. Like Bobby, Brody too idolizes his older sister. Their bedrooms are pretty close to one another, and he mimics every move she makes. He twirls his way through every song like she does and he often plays dolls with her. He brings his baby to their tea parties and he even plays dress up with his baby doll. Since becoming a mother I’ve been astonished by the counts of love my heart can hold. Watching my son have love for his doll is no doubt in my mind prepping him to love and care for his own one day.Kid Holding a Stroller with Baby Dolls Kid Playing a Doll #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Happy Kid with a Baby Doll #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids
  3. Breaking Stereotypes
    There is no doubt that boys have been discouraged to play with “girl” toys for years. When you go down the toy aisles in most stores, they are organized by gender. There are the boy toys on Aisle 5 and the girl toys on Aisle 6. With my first son, naturally I bought most toys from the boy aisles. However, I had two more sons after having my daughter, and so they were naturally more exposed to girl toys, having their doting older sister around all the time. Our daughter Dylan loved dressing her younger brothers up in play dresses and before you knew it, I had three princesses enjoying tea parties. Immediately, I thought it was the sweetest thing and knew in my heart that this type of exposure would only make them better men. This type of play makes them more nurturing and connects them to their sister. And it works both ways; she certainly loves a good basketball game in the front yard.Happy Boy Holding Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Boy Holding a Stroller with a Baby Doll #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Happy Kid with 2 Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Cute Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Kid Eating Together with Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kidsKid Giving Foods to Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Cute Kid Under the Table #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids
  4. Practicing Parenthood
    When Baby Brody makes breakfast for his first baby doll, it’s actually conditioning his little developing brain that breakfast as a family is the norm. And when he dresses his doll, it’s prepping him for the days when he’ll dress his own children. Every type of play that my sons have with dolls, whether bathing or feeding them, is ultimately paving the stepping stones to taking care of their own children one day.Mom & son reading a book #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kids Kid Sleeping with Baby Dolls #babydolls #girltoys #applepark #kidsNow that I am a seasoned mom with three sons, I watch with rapt attention as they navigate through their childhood. Sure, my three boys love to play trucks and sports, but they also love to play with their sister – no matter what that looks like. As their mom, it is my hope to break any rigid stereotypes there are for boys. My daughter has certainly demonstrated being tough, so why can’t my boys demonstrate a more nurturing side? Thank you Apple Park for creating a plush Boy Baby so my little fella can hone in on his future role of serving others! Whether he chooses to be a chef, a scholar, a teacher or otherwise, his Organic Plush Baby Doll has been the perfect sidekick for fostering the fatherhood mindset at an early age.

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5 comments

  1. First of all your little one is absolutely adorable!!!! Secondly I completely agree with your parenting!!! As a Mama with two boys myself I allowed them both to have whichever toys they chose and that included dolls…. I think it has made them much more empathetic and although my youngest has special needs and will never be able to marry, my oldest has spoken of starting a family with his partner and I know in my heart he will be a wonderful dad…

  2. I think there should be more of this in raising little boys. Parents discomfort show through in how they odn’t want to expose their children to some things.

  3. Thank you! I have said this so often to people who want to critize little boys for playing dolls or for mimicking their moms! Great post!

  4. I totally agree that we should not put genders on toy play. My son plays with dolls right along with my girls playing with his cars.

  5. How cute! I totally agree; little boys should have dolls to play with.

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