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5 Ways to Decompress — For Busy Moms!

5 Ways to Decompress — For Busy Moms!coffee in bed

5 Ways to Decompress — For Busy Moms!

From the minute my feet hit the ground each morning, I’m running. While I’m trying to get everyone ready for the day, they’re scattered around like they’ve never gotten ready to leave the house before! I’m the one that has to make sure everyone has what they need before they leave the house for the day or I’ll have to stop whatever I’m doing to bring it to them — and this mama doesn’t need anything added to her to-do list!

By the time the nighttime rolls around, I just want to crawl into bed — even if my makeup is still on and I’ve got Brody’s sticky-fingered snacks in my hair. The thing is, that’s exactly the moment when I truly need to do a few things to decompress before I get up the next morning and do it all over again! If you’re a busy mom struggling to come up with a restorative nighttime routine (aside from a nice Merlot), this one’s for you!

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Stick to a Schedule

If you’ve heard it once, you’ve heard it a million times, but sticking to a schedule really does help! It’ll take some work at first, but once you find your rhythm, you’ll wonder why you waited so long to try it!

Tame the chaos by making things predictable for your kids so they know exactly what they should be doing. Get dinner going while the kids sit at the table to do homework. Once I’ve got our meal simmering, I love using this time to check in with them and see how the day went.

With bellies full and homework down, start the bedtime routine early — it really helps wind them down. Set the tone in each of their rooms with some calming music, aromatherapy and storytime. Then, once they’re settled in, you can sneak away for a little “me time”.organizing in planner mother and child on couchessential oils in hand

Share the Load

I’m pretty lucky. Bobby is a great partner — when I let him be! When it comes to caring for my home and family, I take my role really seriously and, sometimes, it’s hard for me to let go of the reins. Doing this is super important, though, because otherwise it can feel like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. I need to learn to share the load a little.

The evenings can get so crazy — everyone is wound up from a long day — so it helps bring my stress level down when I can delegate tasks (as long as he rinses the dishes exactly how I told him to!) and sneak away for a few moments of zen. I know you will anyway, but don’t feel guilty about this! You spend all day taking care of everyone else, you deserve some pampering, too!

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Find Your Happy Place

The kids are chilling out and everything’s under control — go do something that makes you happy. Danielle’s orders! Even if it’s just 15-20 minutes, have some fun, nurture your soul, and restore balance to your inner self. It’s amazing how different it is from one person to the next, so don’t worry about what I’m doing or what anyone else is doing. Find YOUR bliss!

If you need a few suggestions, though, I’ve got you covered! Some of the things that get me to my happy place include taking a nice bath (adding a few drops of a calming, scented oil is amazing!), slowly sipping on a glass of wine, reading a chapter (two, if I’m lucky!) in my book or meditating for a few moments. It truly helps me slow down and feel grounded after a day of madness.bath with flowers women sitting on fallen tree

Love Your Skin

From weathering harsh winds to soaking up tender baby kisses, the skin on your face goes through a lot in a day. Are you doing enough to show it your love and appreciation? Keeping it real, there are times when I’m super on top of my skincare regimen and, other times, when I just collapse into bed at night, grateful I made it through another day.

Lately, I’ve been bringing my A-game and it feels so good. These days, I’m all about La Mer. It’s a little pricy, but I love it and I. Am. Worth. It! Splurging on myself is an investment, after all. When I feel and look good, it makes me feel like I can take on the world (which is exactly what taking on four kids feels like!). It’s a game-changer!phone on nightstand couple in bed with feet sticking out

Unplug and Reconnect

When everyone’s tucked in and the house is (finally!) quiet, put down the phone! You’ve already scrolled through your timelines a million times and those emails and text messages can wait. Instead, give your mind a well-deserved break. You made it through another day, mama! You’re doing an amazing job!

I love using these rare moments to check in with myself and see how I’m really feeling. Laying there, I look back on my day and cling to all of the things that went right. Life is hard every single day, but there’s always so much I’m thankful for. Being able to curl up with Bobby, with nothing to distract us, is my favorite nighttime routine. Then, as I drift off to sleep with my littles safely tucked in their beds, I let my heart fill with gratitude.

Photo Credit: Sarah Tolmey, Anita Austvika, Christin Hume, Cristofer Jeschke, Henri Pham, Jen P.

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12 thoughts on “5 Ways to Decompress — For Busy Moms!”

  1. Hello Danielle! You have shared nice tips with us. These tips will help every mom who wanted to share time with her family. And also wanted to know how to be happy in her busy schedule and find a peace in her life. Thank you so much for sharing. Keep posting.

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