Let’s talk about addiction. Over 70,000 people have died from an overdose in the last year, according to the New York Times and the CDC. That death toll is higher than car crashes and gun violence, so why aren’t people screaming about this!? Today we’re talking about opioid misuse, prevention, treatment, and breaking the stigma on this topic.
Road To A Rockstar’s Recovery
We are joined today by Nikki Sixx. Founding member of Motley Crue, father of four, three-time New York Times Best Selling author, songwriter, and photographer. He has also been sober for over a decade now and is a proud Addiction Recovery Advocate. The Heroin Diaries is a collection of diary entries from a time that Nikki had initially tried to block out … a time when heroin was taking over his life. He thought that he would publish the book with the hopes of helping even one person with the process of recovery. He states that a lot of influential people write books and try to paint out life to be a beautiful, shiny and perfect thing. Addiction is not that, but he mentions that is does have a beautiful recovery element to it.
An important topic of this pocast is speaking up. Nikki talks about his belief that in the music industry, every genre should an ambassador who can speak about their recovery or someone who can just be an advocate. Children are very impressionable and they do listen to the celebrities that they look up to. Having a voice in today’s society could make a great deal of change even if it just helps one person. That is one more life saved than the day before. We also discuss bringing the topic of drugs back into the education system. This is not a topic we should be hiding from them. Knowledge is power.
Growing up, Nikki struggled with a mother-son relationship which Danielle relates to with her own mother, leaving her alone at three-years-old in their New York apartment. When Danielle became a mother she became more angry with her mother. She didn’t understand her mother’s addiction or her lack of being maternal. Nikki says he understands. He was writing a song called “Mother” for The Heroin Diaries musical. One of the lines says, “It’s not easy being a mother” — with the intent of making the audience feel that it’s not easy being a parent, but then the line ends with “It’s not easy being a mother to someone like you.” He mentions “She put all of her shit on me so it sure felt great when I put a needle in my arm. I didn’t feel like shit anymore. Now it is about getting out of that hole. Finding a way out and finding the road to recovery.”
He shares with us that when he was ready to become a parent, he became a parent. There are many people who can have children but they’re not ready, so when they do it can cause damage. “If you’re not ready for to be a parent, you don’t realize dropping a kid off at their grandparents for the summer fuels the feeling of abandonment” Which is what his mother had done with him. But he says that he fills the hole in his soul with gratitude daily in his current life. Thinking every day what he is grateful for.
A Helping Hand
Nikki wants to find more ways to help with recovery. He has an album, a soundtrack, and a book but he wants to be able to reach out and help people speak out. Help families and addicts themselves, alongside people who don’t understand that the people in their lives might be struggling with addiction and helping them see the signs and understand the behavior more. As an addict, “if you’re willing to hit your knees and admit that you’re powerless to this disease you can start turning your life around and make it better than it was before”. Addiction becomes more important than anything else. People struggling will isolate themselves in this time because this disease takes over.
Nikki shared with us briefly that at one point during his time of usage he was beginning to have seizures from doing “speed balls” which is a mix of cocaine and heroin that you then inject. When his body would unlock from the seizure he would take more heroin and then be so high he would have to snort cocaine. It was a downward spiral. He would carry a needle in one hand and a gun in the other due to the paranoia that affected him.
He talks to us about how he was a “sly devil, tricky and intimidating” He was already a “money making machine” so nobody close to him confronted him on his usage. He mentions he really wishes they were, because interventions can be beneficial if approached properly. Sometimes waiting a day or two more when someone really is needing the help, could end up being too late.
Relapse and Realization
Relapse is also an important topic of discussion. Being sober is a choice. Everyday you can way up and choose to continue on being sober or you can go back on the old ways. When Nikki was nine years sober he relapsed because he thought he had everything under control. He though a glass of wine here and there would be ok. That doing a line of coke now and again wouldn’t be the worst thing ever. That was until he realized he was spiraling again and checked himself into rehab. After recovery, he shares a story about his true realization and awakening. He also shares steps you can take and things you can do during addiction recovery. Make sure you listen for that in the episode! We just want to say thank you again to Nikki Sixx for being on the show today, and we would love to hear your input on this episode below!
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4 thoughts on “Behind ‘The Heroin Diaries’”
Your interview with Nikki Sixx was very timely and thought-provoking. The opioid epidemic affects every demographic and is something we all need to be concerned about, esp for our children.
Sending hugs & thanking you for being Brave today. Opiod overdose, addiction and suicide are not spoken about. People that are not directly effected do not “get it”. We do. I am a grieving mother who also lost her beautiful blue eyed son to heroin/fentynal overdose. Trying to help/save our son from death was all consuming. Devastating to watch a healthy young man become mentally and physically sick and dependent was crushing and horrific daily. To get the call that he died from Heroin/Fentyanol overdose, was my biggest and worst fear, Ever. It is 2 years since Michael left this earth. He couldn’t stop although he tried and begged for his old life back over and over. The cheap/”new” heroin is so addicting and sadly now with drug dealers lacing ALL drugs with the deadly fentynol. I fear the death rates will continue to rise. Thank you for honoring your brother and sharing the truth. Sadly, the pharmaceutical companies/ the drug dealing MD’s all pushed these opiods and some even had 100’s line up for a cash “fee”. They continued to provide the highly addictive pills. I stand with 100’s of grieving mothers on Long Island who have suffered the very same loss of their child to opiods and overdose. Who is going to step up and stop the dealers from murdering our children??? Who will prosecute the drug companies who supplied the pills in abundance for the last 20 years? Now insurance companies are refusing to cover rehabilitation (long term) for this epidemic. I could go on & on for hours about the state of affairs in the USA. I wake up everyday and still wonder if this is a nightmare. Truth is… it IS a Nightmare and we are awake watching it unfold. I belong to a non profit support group ~ LookUpForAdam. com. We continue to provide support to our community and we make beautiful “look up” Beads for families who lost their child to this epidemic. We provide a safe place to share their grief, their story, their child. (www.lookupforadam.com) We are the Beading Hearts <3. We heal hearts one bead at a time. This group SAVED me. I hope we can make beads for your brother Danielle. Huggs & love to you ~ leelee
Great article! Thank you so much for sharing ?
There is a small typo I just wanted to share it: “Being sober is a choice. Everyday you can way up and choose to continue on being sober or you can go back on the old ways.” *wake
Just listened to the Nikki Sixx podcast. Wonderful interview. He is such a great story teller & love how he is spreading the message about addiction. This is a topic we need to see more of in our headlines everyday. My son is currently in recovery & I know all too well what heroin addiction can do not only to the addicted person but the entire family. Great Podcast!!